I have this junior who have been telling me his prob.. i tok to him alot of times but he just wouldnt listen to me. Sometime i really wish to ask him to stop saying, coz after telling me so much, i try to help him but things are just not getting done, i felt useless.. well now i am facing the same prob too... and i thought that i am stupid too..and understand why watever that i say just wouldnt help him..forgetting a person is not easy especially someone whom u really care alot.. how i wish i really can have this "SHI YI ZHEN" forget every single things but i noe that is selfish la.. haiz.. we cannot like that de.. things always have 2 side.. dark and bright, the side which we always saw is dark.. just turn it around will be bright liao..so now i been trying to turn this BIGG thing to the bright side.. slowly i able to see rays of light liao.. as i said i don felt pain as before but i believe, give me more time i would be able to do it completely... anyway junior.. i am not telling u not to tell me ur prob.. so share with me.. i might not be able to help but if u need a listening ear. i am there..sentence of the day:sometime keeping it within,would be better then saying it out